What If She's Not the Right One?

What If She's Not the Right One?

I really like her

It seems I really do like her unless there is a catch.

Even after being so busy and duly distracted by other ladies, all it takes is one post from her and I'm all very awake sending to the background the supposed distractions that took the foreground.

I guess I really really do love M'Abena

God give me wisdom.

Let me not be stubborn

Dream of her

I woke up to a not so good imagery.

I'm still checking if it was a dream or my thoughts.

So I see benaaway in a bathroom scene with rmahaway.

I just can't understand this imagery.

Probably just a something to ignore.

Unless it is a representation of something deeper

Oh I said that is the point to which I normally throw in the towel.

But this isn't real.

God give me wisdom.

Meaning of Obeng 3

From kabalarians.com

Your name of Obeng creates an idealistic, sensitive nature and a desire for culture and the refinements of life.
 You would work best in a relaxed environment at tasks involving writing, mathematical, or analytical skills that require concentration.
 You appear calm to others, but at times you suffer inwardly with nervous tension.
 You can find it difficult to express your deeper thoughts and feelings verbally.
 It is much more natural for you to express your deeper thoughts in writing.
 A lack of positivity and confidence is a source of difficulty in making decisions in business dealings.
 You are easily offended, and can suffer with moods of depression.
 You want the best, but lack the confidence and aggressiveness to materialize your desires.
 Procrastination is a weakness, for so often you are inclined to avoid issues and to leave things undone until the last moment when you are forced to take action.

Health Analysis

You are inclined to indulge in rich foods that lack proper nourishment. This name creates weaknesses in the heart, the respiratory organs, or the kidneys.

Meaning of Obeng 2

Meaning of Obeng 1

From namekum.com

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Now! Back to the personality analysis of Obeng

The figure of knowledge and curiosity. It is important to discover and understand the things that surround you. You are a born investigator having a real driving force inside!

Always taking a step back you like to measure, weigh, examine and unravel the events or people who surround you. Sometimes forgetting to be open or spontaneous you are far from being unsocial!

Bottom line?

Calm and patient you always move at your own pace without taking into account criticism or the common logic. A forward thinking person who could do wonders once they start trusting their intuition. Loving travel and adventure of all sorts.
Cerebral, sensitive, spiritual and intellectual you feel at ease in many areas.Obeng meaning related to workFairly structured in your way of working never doing anything at random.

Thoughtful and demanding feeling the need to control the sector of activity in which you evolve. Very good at execution, being able to work at a high level doing things alone, yet you could also fit very well into a team. Not liking routines a job that moves and changes is better suited for your skills.

Suitable occupations: activities in relation to law, justice, notaries, science, economy, Informatics, biology, crafts, publishing, writing, history, teachers, education, travel times, art, psychology, astrology or numerology.What wellness means to Obeng?Rather dynamic, enterprising and strong however finding it difficult to manage your energies.

Which can stop you from moving forward. Thus learn to evolve in a balanced context otherwise you may find yourself quickly running out of energy. Your weak points are: the kidneys, lower back, nose, legs, your hypersensitivity, blood circulation.Obeng meaning on a financial levelBy nature cautious and anxious paying close attention to your expenses always keeping them in check.

Moreover you often attach a fairly inflexible policy line that allows to keep a good balance despite ups and downs.

░ Similar Related Names To Obeng

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░ Obeng Meaning Of LettersName Obeng 

Meaning Of Letter O

Introverts who like to be alone and have a tendency to isolate themselves. Academically strong, they like to learn new things and to gather knowledge. Calm and pleasant they will try to find the good side of all things and people. Peaceful people who seek harmony in life. They are sincere and trustworthy. Knowing how to carry themselves by relying on logic and intelligence.

Name Obeng Meaning Of Letter B

A very sensitive person who is essentially a sweethearts. One of your greatest weaknesses is jealousy! When you are jealous you tend to hide it from others. Nonetheless the feeling often remains. You need a supportive environment that understands your desires. The biggest reason you fail to achieve goals in most cases is your shyness. Getting more confident will improve your life in many areas. It's best to find loving and supportive people who can give guidance. Your charisma works amazingly good for finding new friends.

Name Obeng Meaning Of Letter E

Your powers of seduction are a sight to behold. A close community and a good environment are two things you really love. One of your strengths is your readiness to put effort into things you care about. This always leads to constant progress and self improvement. Giving respect to others is one of your most prominent features. Having such a strong willpower makes you very tough. Not one to openly show emotions when having a hard time with life.

Name Obeng Meaning Of Letter N

This letter is often a sign of instability. Yet at the same time it empowers adaptability to new circumstances. They are chameleons! Meaning that for them usually no problems exist. Because they know how to get the best of any situation. Mostly staying calm regardless of the situation. They often act as intermediaries when their experience or knowledge is required.

Name Obeng Meaning Of Letter G

Romantic people who like to be in their own world. Big fans of fantasy stories or fiction in general. They have superb abilities in expressing themselves. Not the most generous people, yet they can relate and do feel sympathy. Often thinking about themselves. Inner thoughts are hardly ever revealed to others. Art truly draws them in and there exists a natural talent for the arts.

Dating Well and True Love

Dating Well and True Love

Relationship is like fire, potential for good or bad, joy or hurt
In a  relationship you give the other a license to hurt you

Love is not just a feeling, it is a discipline, a commitment 1 Cor 13

God first - 1 John 4:19

If  you're dating and don't see yourself getting married, STOP!

Know your role

Eph 5:21-25

Man love your wife as Christ
If you're dating, you're in it for what you can give her

Woman, respect and submit, give opinion



taken from sermon series Boy Meets Girl: Dating Well & True Love, The Shore , Austin Adams 13 Feb 2013

When and Who to date?

When and Who to date?

When:
Not now!
Not when it feels right
Not because they like you
Not because your friends are dating

When?
When you are obedient to your parents and guardians about it Eph 6:1
When you are actively seeking God first in your life Mat 6:33
When you are loving God with all your heart and all your strength Mat 22:37
When you know the "who" in them

NB: Dating well is better than dating early

Who:
Not because of how they look Prov 31:30
Not only because of how we feel about them

Who?
Date a follower of Christ 2 Cor 6:14
Date a person that loves God as much as you (or more than you, but in the right way)
Date a person in a similar age range that is easy to get to know them
Date a person your parents and friends are "generally" okay with

taken from sermon series Boy Meets Girl:When & Who, The Shore , Matt Humber 06 Feb 2013

Anxious

Father, You said not to be anxious
I commit my finances to You, increase my salary 5 digits Lord
I ask for direction and wisdom
You have heard my plans, yet not my will
I will work hard, guide me
Help me find rest in you
Let me not be purturbed when I cannot see her
I trust You

Il faut qu'on parle

..... minutes after 12pm phone rings

....wait for me, we need to talk

.......okay, sure

I wait and wait and wait

Finally she arrives

we talk about je veux sortir avec toi and then i realise

.... i really love her enough to let her have the best even if it were not me

I love you

Je veux sortir avec toi

In the early hours of today i was feeling sad at the thought i wasn't going to see my cherished friend for about three days.

More importantly i wanted to let her know that i still feel love, passion, attraction, enchantment, ... for her and really look forward to a life long stay with her.

I rallied up confidence and told her to expect me in the morning.

I waited for her...

She arrived...

I went up to her... still on my bike... she was in a hurry to go to her office...

I told her she looked beautiful... i started perspiring... i mustered courage and said...

I want to date you

(rendez-vous amoureux)
.......

........

she nodded... , but she had to leave to attend to work......

I waved and left for work....

Hours later....

she calls to meet

... i arrive, and we discuss the morning

agreement is reached on the exact meaning

happy day!

The fear of the Lord

Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.
Proverbs 16:3 NIV

Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord .
Proverbs 19:14 NIV

Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise.
Proverbs 20:1 NIV

Many claim to have unfailing love, but a faithful person who can find?
Proverbs 20:6 NIV

Do not love sleep or you will grow poor; stay awake and you will have food to spare.
Proverbs 20:13 NIV

To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.
Proverbs 21:3 NIV

Whoever loves pleasure will become poor; whoever loves wine and olive oil will never be rich.
Proverbs 21:17 NIV

Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.
Proverbs 21:23 NIV

Pay attention and turn your ear to the sayings of the wise; apply your heart to what I teach,
Proverbs 22:17 NIV

Do not exploit the poor because they are poor and do not crush the needy in court,
Proverbs 22:22 NIV

Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered,
Proverbs 22:24 NIV

Do not be one who shakes hands in pledge or puts up security for debts;
Proverbs 22:26 NIV

Do not move an ancient boundary stone set up by your ancestors.
Proverbs 22:28 NIV

Do you see someone skilled in their work? They will serve before kings; they will not serve before officials of low rank.
Proverbs 22:29 NIV

ATGATT less boots - no comment

Motor riding: First fall, Slippery Surface, Importance of Gear - Gloves

I haven't posted about my "new" motor bike the Honda NXR 125 Red

This post is about gear - gloves and my first fall on a bike (very very minor fall)

So after riding on a slippery basketball surface and even a clayey football field - I RATHER slipped on a very small patch of mud in my office parking lot.

So i was turning at walking pace to observe the reverse parking rule here and "bang!" my bike was low sided (i know this applies to higher speeds).

I broke my right side mirror.

My gloves (Kevlar with armor) took some mud as well.

On hind side - i should never ride through such questionable surfaces and more so try to negotiate a bend.


Please please if you ride do so with gear! and for this purpose GLOVES!

And yes i thank God for all this and His provision for me :-)

Consumed in a vulcano of emotions

i can't take my mind off her

yet she implores me to do so

when i see her i am disarmed - she knows it

what do i do

God help me!

How i thought i ended 2016 - relationship with the opposite gender

On the eve of 31st Dec 2016, i sat on a concrete slab before our watch night service commenced.

I resolved to love, i resolved not to exert myself on people to whom i expressed love yet but rejected it - (wrong move in retrospect)

But guess what, 1st Jan 2017, sitting on the same slab, i reverted when a dear person sat by me and i realised that the "love" i feel for her wasn't one that could be brushed off.

A few days later she (another) hits me up on the phone and i wonder to myself, this is reciprocal and i start wrapping my mind to possibilities again.

Some months i decide to get in touch with her (yet another) and she (yet another) is very happy and expresses profound excitement (i deduced love) to hearing from me.

Anyway 3 months from that day, today, i realize, yes i do love her (placeholder), and that is what it is.

Love is not selfish, et al 1 Cor 13

so here is another resolution - to still love with a non-expectant mind.

Great is God's Faithfulness