Tuesday, September 19, 2017
Relationship is like fire, potential for good or bad, joy or hurt
In a relationship you give the other a license to hurt you
Love is not just a feeling, it is a discipline, a commitment 1 Cor 13
God first - 1 John 4:19
If you're dating and don't see yourself getting married, STOP!
Know your role
Man love your wife as Christ
If you're dating, you're in it for what you can give her
Woman, respect and submit, give opinion
taken from sermon series Boy Meets Girl: Dating Well & True Love, The Shore , Austin Adams 13 Feb 2013
Not when it feels right
Not because they like you
Not because your friends are dating
When you are obedient to your parents and guardians about it Eph 6:1
When you are actively seeking God first in your life Mat 6:33
When you are loving God with all your heart and all your strength Mat 22:37
When you know the "who" in them
NB: Dating well is better than dating early
Not because of how they look Prov 31:30
Not only because of how we feel about them
Date a follower of Christ 2 Cor 6:14
Date a person that loves God as much as you (or more than you, but in the right way)
Date a person in a similar age range that is easy to get to know them
Date a person your parents and friends are "generally" okay with
taken from sermon series Boy Meets Girl:When & Who, The Shore , Matt Humber 06 Feb 2013
Wednesday, September 13, 2017
Father, You said not to be anxious
I commit my finances to You, increase my salary 5 digits Lord
I ask for direction and wisdom
You have heard my plans, yet not my will
I will work hard, guide me
Help me find rest in you
Let me not be purturbed when I cannot see her
I trust You
Sunday, September 10, 2017
....wait for me, we need to talk
I wait and wait and wait
Finally she arrives
we talk about je veux sortir avec toi and then i realise
.... i really love her enough to let her have the best even if it were not me
I love you
Thursday, September 7, 2017
More importantly i wanted to let her know that i still feel love, passion, attraction, enchantment, ... for her and really look forward to a life long stay with her.
I rallied up confidence and told her to expect me in the morning.
I waited for her...
I went up to her... still on my bike... she was in a hurry to go to her office...
I told her she looked beautiful... i started perspiring... i mustered courage and said...
I want to date you
she nodded... , but she had to leave to attend to work......
I waved and left for work....
she calls to meet
... i arrive, and we discuss the morning
agreement is reached on the exact meaning
i'm thankful for vendors, assignments, scheduling, planning, safey,