First of all by simple observation and deduction:
Take the ”i” that is yourself from living and replace it with the ”o” that is others and you'll be loving.
Simple as it may sound, it could be tedious at first and seem to go against the natural instincts of survival.
But just substitute I with Others and you should be fine.
If yOu have any problem with this feel free to drop me a line or check with ”I” yourself.