Monday, February 20, 2023

Check Care Confirm Correct

 As I glance through the pages of a book I'm reading, I learn one crucial aspect of human interaction that is worth observing and modulating.

These four words have lighted up my cerebrum

Criticism, Complain, Compliment, Praise

These words can wound or heal

They can pierce or cover

They build or destroy


Regardless of reason or explanation


When these words are used to describe the actions of another or how one feels about the result of an action they can be considered as positive for the purposes of communicating respect and resolution needed.


However when they are consistently used to describe a person's character; with implication of feelings of disgust, utter displeasure at the person and not necessarily the actions - they point to a deep-seated-unresolved-unattended-unaccepted issues.


Examples paraphrased from book on seven principles for making marriage work

Complaint: There's no fuel in the car. Why didn't you fill it up like you said you would ?

Criticism: Why can't you ever remember anything? I told you a thousand times to fill up the tank, and you didn't.


Complaint: You should have asked me before inviting anyone over for dinner. I wanted to spend time alone with you tonight.

Criticism: Why do you keep putting your friends ahead of me? I always come last on your list. We were supposed to have dinner alone tonight.

Saturday, February 11, 2023

Yan

i think of you,

     i think of life,

         i think of peace,

             i think of us,

                 i think of now

                        .... i love you



Wednesday, June 17, 2020

LUFS, LKFS, dbFS, PPM, VU, RMS

working on sound/audio mastering

concepts one cannot do without

start your recording and mixing at “0VU = -18 dbfs” to have enough headroom

have most channels close to this level or -24dbfs

this should aid your gain staging

Normalise yourself, the less the compression the better

-16 LUFS music, -23 LUFS television (highest recommendation although -13 LUFS music good)

LUFS meters most preferred during mastering

PPM more preferred for fast transients, drums, etc

VU preferred general mixing(easier) so long as its reference to 0 dbfs is set properly













Check Care Confirm Correct

 As I glance through the pages of a book I'm reading, I learn one crucial aspect of human interaction that is worth observing and modula...